할아버지 = grandfather
할머니 = grandmother
아버지 / 아빠 =father / dad
어머니 / 엄마 =mother / mom
삼촌 =uncle (from mother’s side)
큰 아버지 =uncle (father’s older brother)
착은 아버지 =uncle (father’s younger brother)
형 / 오빠 = older brother ( from boy/ girl point of view)
누나 / 언니 = older sister ( from boy/girl point of view)
남 덩생 = younger brother
여 덩생 =younger sister
how to say hello…
안녕! = hello or goodbye (when saying to your friend or someone younger than you)
안녕하세요? = hello? (saying hello to someone older – formal Q & A)
안녕하십니까? = hello? (more formal Q & A than 안녕하세요)
(만나서) 반갑습니다 = nice to meet you
안녕하셨(십니까 / 어요)? = how have you been doing? (십니까 more formal than 어요)
아 예, 잘 있었(습니다 / 어요) = I’ve been doing good (answer to question above – 습니다 more formal than 어요)
잘 있었어(요)? = are you doing well ? (when ask to friend or someone younger)
잘 있었어 = i’m doing well / i’m good (answer to question above)
어서오세요 / 어서오십시오 = welcome
how to say thank you…
고마워(요) = thank you (saying thank you to your friend or someone younger)
감사합니다 / 고맙습니다 = thank you (formal way to say thank you)
천만입니다 / 천만에요 = you’re welcome
how to say goodbye…
안녕히가세요 =goodbye ( saying to people who will go)
안녕히계세요 = goodbye ( saying to people who will stay)
잘 가세요 = goodbye and be careful
어서가세요= you’re free to go (say to someone who is in hurry- formal)
어서가 =go (say to friend who is in hurry- informal)
if there is work/service involved, use goodbye statement below :
수고하세요 = thanks for the hardwork, continue your good work (may use to person who still work)
수고하셨습니다 = thanks for the great job you did ( say to the person after all the work is done)
if you’re saying goodbye when u’re supposed to come back, then u can say :
다녀 오겠습니다 = goodbye (when u’re supposed to come back to the first place, and usually when u just go for a while, not more than a day)
다녀 오세요 =response to greeting above ( say to people who are going and supposed to come back)
this month, this year..finally i reach 21 years..
when u are legally to do anything..but still with more responsibility..
these days, i’m afraid of anything..i keep thinking and thinking..next year i will graduate from university and thinking about work place makes me scary and afraid..i like to be in school, i love studying..but i can’t depend on my parents for the rest of my life. i’m 21 years old now, i need to fully responsible for myself, my life, my future..suddenly i feel like carrying something big in my shoulder..i sometimes want to run away..but,are people also like that,aren’t they? they like to stay as long as possible at their “comfort zone”. maybe now, i just don’t want to left this comfort zone and go out to find the new one or make new one..
there is always dialog in my head for myself, what i should and shouldn’t, what i want and i need, stop..take a deep breath, and start walking, slowly, far away from my comfort zone…
it’s written in an article, that i’m type who always need time, 24 hours never enough for me..too much things that i want to do in my life, but i never start anything seriously..it’s like enthusiasm for a moment..what is passion? i want to have that, or it’s something that i need to find? or…i become like this again….too much thinking…without action…fuuhh…
(start humming) dubidudam…dubidubidamm..mhmm(high note)….mhmmm(lower note)….
RUDE – RUDENESS
that word is now haunted me
bring me to another level of understanding
I don’t like depend on other people..but..
I feel bad to give up when i want something, but the condition makes me angry, disappointed and then i choose to let things go. sometimes, if my parents said that something is not important then it’s likely become not important to me too. when my parents said about important things i need then it looks like really important.
i try to make a decision, but if the decision related to money then i couldn’t say anything.
i always feel bad when my parents said “masih banyak kebutuhan lain dulu yang perlu” (there are still many things we need). when i hear that i’ll say to myself “ok, i’ll stop..forget everything that i ask”.
i sad,disappointed,angry,guilty at the same time.
this is an old poem
when i was in
senior high school..
I’m this world
i laugh like flowers blossom in a meadow
i cry like rainfall in the dark day
i angry like eruption of volcano
i quiet like silence lake
i talk like warble of bird when the sun rises
i die like everything die in this world
If i can change myself, i have a big opportunity to change the world
by : Helsa Caesari
( Feb, 13th 2006)
So excited this month…waiting for the end of this month..
This month..
Finish the final exam in this semester..
My sister start her life in the dorm..after 15 years, live with our parents, she try to be more responsible..
I have new activity in Campus..
Get ready for new journey..
Still praying for the best…
Already July now…too lazy to write here about what happened last june..haha..
about the friday’s story in june..I guess it’s not really interesting to be told here, that’s why I’m writing just now..
first, departure briefing –> it’s not like my expectation, but I was glad because I can meet new friend and share story…
second, practical exam –> I forget how difficult the case was, but I’ve passed the exam with grade A, it’s a good news, isn’t it?
This month is so special..especially on friday..
04th June –> Quiz.
11th June –> Video Recording for the first time…I was really nervous..when I look at the camera, my mind blank. i don’t know what i have to say..suddenly i forget everything..after 30 minutes, calm down myself, I then have something to say to that camera. it’s just for 2 minutes but feel like for 2 hours….sooooo……..nervous…but this is new experience..glad to pass this..hehe..
18th June–> Departure Briefing (The detail story will come soon..)
25th June –> Practical Exam.
ow, i suddenly remember…Friday in Islam is a very good day..day of precedence among the other days. doesn’t mean the other days is not good, everyday is just the same depend on what are you doing everyday…but, i want to make an analogy, if day is a sugar candy…so there are 7 candies and Friday is the sweetest one or the most appealing one.. 
